A Little Bit About Me
“Don’t judge a book by its cover”
I have endeavoured to take on the task of helping my friend and brother find his life partner. Insha allah.
In my opinion he is a fun loving, hardworking and pious individual who prays five times a day. He strives to live his life according to the Sunnahs as best as he can here in the west. Allah (SWT) knows best. I look up to him both in life and in height! As you can see in the pictures he is over 6 feet tall, alhamdulillah.
He is originally from Hyderabad, specifically from a place called Gulzar house near Charminar. We are searching far and wide for a suitable sister for him however if you or your family are connected to the place of his birth then this would definitely be advantageous.
He graduated with a first class degree from Shadan College of Pharmacy after which he studied at and graduated from Greenwich University in London with an MSc in Pharmaceutical Sciences.
He is currently living in Suffolk in the east of England and is working full time as a Pharmacy Manager.
He is very health conscious and keeps fit by running, going to the gym and playing Badminton. I know, every guy on here says they do this, but trust me he really does. His true passion, however, is his love for cricket. He can’t wait for the season to start and after a lot of hard work and determination he has managed to secure himself a place in the first team in one of the county league teams. Player of the year 2016 to say the least! I won’t say anymore in case his head grows too large to fit through the doorway when he reads this.
Now that’s enough about him, lets talk about who he is hoping to marry insha allah.
What I Am Looking For
To start with, looks do matter, however it is not for me, his friends or parents to define this. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, however due to his height the sister will have to be at least 5ft 6inches in height.
Moving on to outlining the more important qualities that he is looking for in his future wife. Utmost on the wish list is that the sister is pious, hijabi, and prays five times a day. He is also looking for someone who educated to at least graduate level. He is a fun loving, humorous guy and he wants to live life with his wife to the fullest, but whilst at the same time, pleasing his creator.
As mentioned above he is health conscious and likewise his future wife should also have an awareness and understanding of the importance of fitness and wellbeing. He is not the kind of guy who wants his wife to stay indoors all day cooking, cleaning and watching day time telly. She should be intelligent, be capable of independent thinking, empowered, and definitely have a good sense of humour. A successful and long lasting marriage should be based on self respect and respect for ones partner.
That’s take us to the next point which hopefully will not offend any sisters out there as this is certainly not the intention. Now lets face it, food plays an important role in our culture and it would be desirable if the sister at least has an interest in cooking. I say this because; if she has a genuine interest then she would cook because she wants to, not because somebody asks her to. To be clear on this point, my brother does not need a cook, he knows his way round a kitchen and has some pretty impressive cooking skills himself so no one will starve if she didn’t cook. After all marriage and life in general is a lot more harmonious if a husband and wife can cook together and for each other.
If I have managed to grab your attention then please get in touch.
Conversely if I have managed to put you off, or worse, bored you then still get in touch if you like what you see because my words are not his own and he is a man worth getting to know.
Now in terms of making contact we would wish to keep things as halal as possible whilst protecting everyone’s modesty and values. Now I understand that different people have differing views on which methods are best and I would like to stress that we will be happy to accommodate individuals’/family’s wishes. Some profiles have pictures and some do not. At some point the brother will need to see a photo of the sister. Now, how you wish to accommodate this request will be left totally at your discretion as the internet can be quite an unsecure environment and not everyone is comfortable in this medium. After all, people have managed to get married long before the world wide web came into existence.
Finally, I wish you all the best in the task you have undertaken and may Allah (SWT) grant us all success.